Yesterday was a wonderful day. Everything went quite well. Brandon started to get annoyed with the baby because he was having a bad night but instead of getting upset at him for feeling that way and not helping, I decided to practice patience and take the baby off his hands. I was surprised how I get re payed by Brandon though, He was so sweet about it and so nice. He even gave me a back massage last night. It was so sweet of him.
Today's dare is about being kind. Kindness is something that I often give to Brandon. I am always thinking of others and how to brighten their day so this shouldn't be too hard. It breaks it down in to 4 categories:
-Gentleness - I am pretty gentle with Brandon's feelings most of the time. Sometimes when I am angry I use my words to hurt him but I am going to work on not doing that anymore.
-Helpfulness - I need to be more helpful and give Brandon what he needs. What better time to start than his text message just now asking me to bag up the trash and he will take it out.
-Willingness - I need to learn to compromise more.
-Initiative - I have been working on doing this. I need to greet him right when he comes home even if I am stressed.
My dare today is to do something as an Act of kindness and don't say anything negative. Lets see how this goes!